Right, I'm not trying to steer you away from a huge mistake because I'm a friend, but because I'm a huge asshole.

[He sets down his glass for some slightly-dramatic emphasis.] I might not know everything you've been through, or your deepest feelings, but I know what you've told me about the situation.

What I'm hearing is that you're just playing along with Blaine's wishes until he comes around. Do you not understand why that could be a problem? He thinks you're on the same page as him, but you're not. You're not starting over at all. You're already making marriage plans.